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    • Wedding Liturgy Preparation

      Here are some helpful tips and resources as you plan for your upcoming wedding liturgy.
       
       Resources
       • Click here to view reading and responsorial psalm options
       • Click here for information about planning music
       
       Worship Aid/Program

      The Office of Liturgy and Music is happy to assist, if desired, with an outline or PDF template for your liturgy.
       
       Preparation
       Regarding the preparation of the liturgy, the Order of Matrimony says the following: 

      The celebration itself of the Sacrament must be diligently prepared, as far as possible, with the engaged couple.  Marriage should normally be celebrated within Mass.  Nevertheless, with due regard both for the necessities of pastoral care and for the way in which the prospective spouses and those present participate in the life of the Church, the pastor should decide whether it would be preferable to propose that Marriage be celebrated within or outside of Mass.  The following should be chosen with the engaged couple, as the circumstances so suggest: the readings from Sacred Scripture, which will be explained in the Homily; the form for expressing mutual consent; the formularies for the blessing of rings, for the Nuptial Blessing, for the intentions of the Universal Prayer or Prayer of the Faithful, and for the chants.  Moreover, attention should also be given to the appropriate use of options provided in the rite as well as to local customs, which may be observed if appropriate.

    • Liturgy Planning Form

      The maximum number of form submissions has been reached. This form is currently not available.
      • Fill out and submit this form at least 6 weeks prior* to your wedding date.  You will receive a copy of your submission via email.  If you have any questions, contact Karina Miranda at  [email protected] or 919-973-0008
        * If you would like music, please schedule a meeting with the Director of Liturgy and Music, Angela Flynn before completing this form.
      • Contact Information
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        • Note: In a Catholic wedding, the liturgy is a sacred act of worship governed solely by the Church, and wedding planners have no authority to alter its prayers, readings, or rituals.
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      • Liturgy Details
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        • You should talk to the priest or deacon preparing you for matrimony about this decision
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        • At least two people
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        • Leave blank if not yet scheduled or you don't know
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        • Livestream can be viewed via the parish website. Archived video can be sent by request following the wedding.
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      • Liturgy of the Word
        • Click here to view all options for the readings and responsorial psalm.  Page numbers below correspond to this document.
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        • Can be one or two people, can be one of the Readers of the First or Second Readings if needed
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        • Click here for instruction about planning music, musician fees, and a list of possible selections with recordings.  Please do not submit this planning form before speaking with the Director of Liturgy and Music, Angela Flynn.
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